A relationship counsellor and behavioural expert, Pastor Douglas Jonathan, has urged filmmakers in Nigeria to embrace more purposeful storytelling that can positively influence society and reshape how women’s experiences are portrayed on screen.
Jonathan, who also serves as Lead Minister at Vertical Impact Church in Lagos, shared his views during an interview in the city.
He explained that film narratives should move beyond mere entertainment and be used as tools for cultural change and social progress.
According to him, storytelling plays a major role in shaping beliefs, attitudes and behaviours, particularly in how society views women, motherhood and personal development.
He stressed that filmmakers must recognise their influence and focus on creating stories that inspire meaningful change rather than simply following trends or chasing popularity.
Jonathan described storytelling as a powerful force capable of redefining societal expectations, especially regarding women and family life.
He pointed out that many films still depict motherhood in restrictive ways, often presenting it as either a burden or a silent sacrifice instead of a transformative stage in a woman’s life.
He further noted that many women struggle not because of motherhood itself, but due to a lack of supportive structures and narratives that acknowledge both their caregiving roles and personal identity.
The counsellor added that storytelling should reflect the emotional and psychological realities women face, including identity changes, emotional responsibilities and societal pressures that are often overlooked.
He warned that when films fail to capture these complexities, they create unrealistic expectations and place silent pressure on women.
Jonathan also emphasised the need to portray women as multi-dimensional individuals, rather than reducing them to stereotypes such as victims, heroes or romantic figures.
He called for more honest depictions of issues like emotional neglect, career conflicts, societal expectations and mental health challenges, urging that such themes be handled responsibly rather than exaggerated for entertainment.
In addition, he highlighted the importance of stories that offer hope, growth and healing, instead of focusing solely on hardship.
He said such narratives should help women understand that personal fulfilment, restoration and balance between career and family life are achievable.
Jonathan also cautioned that storytelling can negatively shape behaviour if not handled carefully, noting that past film portrayals have sometimes influenced harmful attitudes among audiences.
He maintained that the kind of stories told in films ultimately shapes how women see themselves and their place in society, either limiting their potential or encouraging them to grow into fuller versions of themselves.